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Is it possible to be gay only for one specific person and no one else?

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A bit of background: there is this guy I’ve known for a while, we’re friends but now too close, we hang out occasionally with other friends. So far I have always been straight and never even thought of having sex with men or considering being in love with a man. I was in two long-term relationships with girls, and I had a fair amount of sexual relationships with women. This is the only man in the world whom I find attractive, and not just attractive, I’m actually drawn very intensely to him. Whenever we are together, if we start drinking, I can hardly fight the urge to just touch his hand or lips or his knee. I just want to touch him all the time and I can’t stop looking at him. Btw he’s also straight. I don’t know how he feels about me but there have been occasions where we sort of looked at each other (when we’re in company of other people, never when it’s just the two of us) when I think we looked at each others’ eyes for just a little bit too long. You know the kind of look I mean. So anyways I’m wondering does this attraction make me gay, or can it be just for this one particular man. I don’t want to do anything about it, I’m just wondering whether being with him would “turn me” gay or it would be a one-time thing.

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